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Our trip to CO, day 6

July 13th – Monday

We drove into downtown Denver around 8 am and all five of us went into the convention. The kids and I hadn’t seen all the booths yet, so while Sid and J.P. sat at the Sid Clothing booth, the kids and I perused.

Boy did we see interesting stuff, toothbrushes with scripture printed on them, soccer balls with scripture printed on them, tons of books, including one titled So Much More Than Sexy and tons of salespeople apparently “in the zone” because they couldn’t look at my face without first reading my badge to see whether I was a buyer for a huge christian retailer, and once they could plainly see I was there with my husband’s clothing company, I almost thought I had vanished into thin air (literally, since Denver is known as “The Mile High City”). Strange dynamic when one is supposedly surrounded by brothers and sisters in the Lord.

Unfortunately, it became obvious in the first couple of hours that christian industry at large, is not interested in Sid Clothing . . . yet. Too bad they’ll probably catch on just as the mainstream decides these designs are outdated and the talented Sid has moved onto new horizons. Oh well.

***Warning, rant ahead, read at your own risk***
What was especially disappointing to me was the massive amount of attention that the larger christian collectibles companies got, compared to the complete void of attention these beautiful orthodox nuns from Belarus received at their booth near Sid’s. These ladies had the most beautiful handmade items for sale, really truly artisanal items, including hand-painted icons. The bigger companies only offer silly looking, plastic figures, from a mold, made in China, that end up making christianity out to be nothing more than some horrible home accessory aesthetic. Sad, sad state of things. I loved the nuns and their beautiful things.

We left the convention, leaving Sid behind, to have lunch in the motorhome. After we ate we went out sightseeing. The first destination on our list was The United States Treasury Mint. I had my downtown Denver map, a bottle of water, a good attitude and my camera and we were out on the town. The mint was very close, but all of the tours were full. This wasn’t exactly a bad thing since I couldn’t imagine 2 year old Junie feeling like acting civilized through a guided tour. We were all very content to at least be granted entry to the gift shop.

We bought mini coins and oversized coins and a deck of cards for Didi. I remembered having the oversized coins when I was a kid, but my kids found a use for them I never imagined; they rolled them! They rolled those things down the sidewalk, down steps, through water fountains, all over downtown Denver. My every suggestion that they stop so that we could focus on actually getting somewhere, was met with great dismay, “But this is so fun, Mom, I really love it!” Alright then.

The Denver Art Museum is closed on Mondays, just in case you visit there someday, and it happens to be a Monday and you find yourself wondering why all the doors are locked. At least there were some cool big art features outside the museum for the kids to climb all over, slide down and stand under for shade.

We passed through the Denver Library and out to Civic Center Park. We strolled through the lovely gardens, took pictures of the sexy Native American on his horse and then meandered over to a huge, shallow, lovely fountain. The kids dipped their feet in, but refreshment for us weary pedestrians didn’t stop there, just as we were enjoying the fountain a storm rolled in and it began to rain on us. It was nice! And a perfect opportunity to get the kids walking with a purpose. We high-tailed it to Colfax and right to the day-use parking lot where the sweet warm shelter of our motorhome was waiting to embrace us and give us rest.

We chilled, I made and enjoyed coffee and we watched our scary movie again. Then we changed the middle bed back into a dinette and I started the daunting task of building Spongebob’s Lego house!

Sid came out from the convention early and we cruised back down to Cherry Creek, to our new full hook-ups spot.

The three amigos in front of the city building

The three amigos in front of the city building


Jonny snapped this one

Jonny snapped this one


I love this gate leading into the children's area of the Denver Art Museum

I love this gate leading into the children's area of the Denver Art Museum


They found all kinds of ways to play on this cool thing

They found all kinds of ways to play on this cool thing


Rolling coins in front of a sculpture that reminds me of Beetlejuice

Rolling coins in front of a sculpture that reminds me of Beetlejuice


This cow and calf are so amazing to view!

This cow and calf are so amazing to view!


Utterly chillin'

Utterly chillin'


Dig the pose she strikes!

Dig the pose she strikes!


I remember seeing this in my art textbook

I remember seeing this in my art textbook


There he is, the sexy Native American.  Wow.

There he is, the sexy Native American. Wow.


Pretty fountain, I wish we had one in our yard

Pretty fountain, I wish we had one in our yard


See the drops falling into the surface of the water?

See the drops falling into the surface of the water?

The story of Oliver’s birth

We decided to start “trying” to get pregnant thinking that it might take us a little time since it took over 6 months with Miles. We were wrong. We were pregnant right away. I found out I was pregnant while Teppei still had a week left out on tour and I wasn’t about to tell him over the phone. I kept that little bit of info from the world for an entire week. He basically walked in the door with his suitcase and I spilled the beans. I couldn’t hold it any longer! My pregnancy was fairly easy and my mind was focused on other things such as an incredibly energetic one and a half year old.

We decided that we wanted our midwife, BJ Snell, to help with the birth of Oliver because we trusted her so much and loved our experience with birthing Miles. I had thought of having Miles at home but my anxiety and fears of the unknown led us to have him at a hospital with a midwife. It was definitely as good of an experience as you could have at a hospital. When BJ opened her birth center and began attending home births we knew that we wanted to go that route this time. I knew what to expect and I wasn’t afraid that I wouldn’t be able to do it.

We had taken Bradley classes when I was pregnant with Miles, and learned so much about birth, that this time around we decided that we wanted to take a different approach to broaden our understanding of different relaxation techniques. In looking back on Miles’ birth I feel like I “knew” what was going on but I still had fear and a defensive outlook when I walked into the hospital. I was mentally ready but not at peace or ready in my heart. In studying the Hypnobabies handbook and reading Ina May’s Guide to Natural Childbirth, we learned the importance of cleansing your mind of all your fears of birth, trusting your bodies ability to birth, and the connection between the mind and pain.

On the morning of the 19th of July I woke up like usual to Miles yelling “MOOOMMMMYYYY.” I got up and got him out of bed and started having mild contractions. I had been having a lot of Braxton Hicks practice contractions for a couple weeks, but these seemed a little different. We decided to go out to breakfast because I had thought I was in labor probably 18 times previous, so this was no big deal. We stopped by our friend Amy’s house to drop something off and I told her that I thought I might be in labor. Jeff, her husband, said “really!?” and I laughed it off and said probably not. At breakfast I started feeling them a little more, but nothing to make me say that I was actually in labor. By the time we got home I still wasn’t sure. Teppei was supposed to record and I told him to maybe call and cancel. By about 12ish I told him to just call it off just in case it was the real thing.
We began timing the contractions and realized that this was probably it. We called BJ and because I needed IV antibiotics, she came right over. She checked me and I was already at 5 or 6 centimeters at that point. I was shocked because I wasn’t even in any pain and I wasn’t even sure if I was actually in labor. With Miles, when I got to the hospital and was unable to talk, I was only 4 cm! Teppei and I went out to garden for a little bit. I then decided I wanted to take a shower, which I ended up staying in for what felt like 2 hours. What was different for me this time was that I was welcoming the contractions and working with them to try to help my body progress. I would circle my hips and squat on the birth ball. As I showered I prayed and welcomed God to be a part of the birth (which Jen Stankovitz taught me on her blog blessmybirth.com). I was excited and almost joyous to work with my body and my baby.

When I got out of the shower I was around 7 cm. I was still walking and talking, but became more and more focused during the contractions. Teppei would massage my back and remind me to let go. It is amazing how difficult it is to let your muscles relax around your tightening uterus. With every contraction they would remind me to let my hips go and allow the baby to come down further. I knew that if I fought my uterus, it would send pain signals and progress would be hindered. I kept imagining a flowers pedals opening and opening. I was still so aware and positive during this phase. At one point I told BJ that I thought I was going backwards because it wasn’t getting worse. She assured me that I wasn’t.

Things started to get a little more intense and I got in the birth tub, which was set up in my dining room. I was laughing because I felt like I was at a spa. Teppei even cut a couple slices of cucumber to put over my eyes as a joke. BJ, Teppei, and the birth assistants were all in chairs around the tub just watching me. I recommended that they go start a game of scrabble because I felt everyone looking at me! Things slowed down due to the warmth and comfort of the tub, so I decided to get out and try to go to the bathroom. That is when I really started to feel the intensity and the power of birth start. I began to have very strong contractions that I had to moan through in order to not tighten my whole body.

When BJ checked me again I was 8 cm. I decided to have her break my bag of water in order to allow the baby to come down even more. This was when I hit transition. They brought me back to the tub and I began instinctively to push a little with each contraction. It is amazing how you can revert to a childlike state. I was hanging over the tub holding Angelique (who was such an amazing support for me). Teppei was in the tub with me rubbing my back and BJ was coaching me through each push. It was the most intense time. Teppei was having to pull my legs out because I kept climbing up over him. I was able to reach down and feel Oliver’s head as I was pushing which was so amazing and helpful. I could almost guide myself in how hard and when to push. His head came out and his shoulders took another couple pushes.

He came out and into Teppei’s arms he went. I laid back and held him, watching him as he experienced his first breath of air. I kept saying, “he is not crying! Is he breathing?!” BJ assured me that babies don’t have to cry and it takes a little time for them to figure out how to breath. He was pink and healthy and happy from the moment he came out. He was able to latch on and nurse right away. It was such a joyous and amazing experience to be at home, unafraid, and able to welcome and enjoy the intensity and power of what God created the woman’s body to do. Oliver James Daichi Teranishi was 8 lbs 4 oz. and 20 inches long. He is so beautiful and we are madly in love with him. It is crazy how such a deep bond is formed through the womb and is only fully realized once that baby is in your arms. The birth began at 1pm and I had my baby boy at 6:08pm. Transition hit around 5:30pm and pushing lasted only 10 minutes.

Our trip to CO, day 5

Get ready for a long one folks!

July 12th – Sunday

Waking in such close proximity to a river and away from towns is wonderful! Sid made us a great breakfast of hash browns, eggs with cheese and coffee. We girls took turns brushing each other’s hair while the boys shot paper plates tacked to trees with the BB gun.

As I wrote in this journal, Ave brought me a rock and pretty flowers. When my records were up-to-date, I exited the motorhome and was instantaneously struck by the beauty of the wildflowers all around. I know not the name of even one specimen, but I think that circumstance facilitated my sense of wonder and discovery. I thoroughly enjoyed wandering through this fairyland, taking pictures of the flowery scenery filling the space between rivers, pathways and comfy cabins.

Meanwhile, Sid and Jonny were taking aim at a squirrel with plans to skin it later and word on the street is that Miss Aveline kept shoving Sid so that he couldn’t get a clear shot! What a gal! “I dub thee, Aveline, Savior of the Squirrels!”
-Bushybottom, King of Squirluania

I was having trouble getting close up shots of the prettiest flowers, so I asked Sid for help. He found the macro-lens setting on my new camera and showed me how to do it myself. That opened up a new world to me! Like as if I had learned to scuba dive! It took a bit of an adjustment when the time came for me to leave my new teensy, sharp, detailed world, returning to what now registered more like some kind of Oaf-land.

An interesting thing happened to me, presently. Sid and the kids had started back to the motorhome as I was finishing getting what turned out to be my favorite shot of a flower. I looked up into an area of the woods that seemed a little more dense and less traveled. I just felt drawn a bit further, like the Lord was inviting me, although I think my brain does that to me. But soon I began to hear what sounded like a bird in a tizzy. I followed the raucous with my ears and eyes and spied a mama bird perched next to a hole in a tree. She kept jutting her head into the hole and her tail feathers would ruffle as she did so. I assumed she was regurgitating into the mouths of her babies, I think I even heard their tiny chirps. I watched for a minute or so, got a decent shot of her, for not having a telephoto lens or whatever, and then she took flight and I got to see the most brilliant flash of red on the underside of her wings. That was what I went there for! I thanked the Lord and went on my way, probably much more hurriedly than I should have, now that I think about it.

As I was approaching the motorhome I met with Jonny above two giant pipes from which the river gushed, and was appointed the position of lighting his water-proof firecrackers so that he could toss them into the river and observe their muffled, splashy explosions. That was fun!

It was disappointing to leave that special place, but it will live on in my heart (and photos) and I feel certain I will be there again one day, only maybe staying in one of those comfy cabins. How interested we were to see in the daylight, off the very road from which we desperately pulled to crash out, the numerous RV campgrounds that had been completely obscured in the dark of the previous night! Did we regret not having found a spot in one of those cozy campgrounds, perhaps a spot more level than our makeshift one by the river? No way, Jose.

We cruised on into Denver and found the convention center where Sid and his business partner, J.P., would have a booth for the International Christian Retailers something or other. They got a few things set up and we were off to find lodgings for the night. It took us a ridiculously long time, but we ended up at a campground in Cherry Creek, about 20 min. south of Denver.

Once we were settled I did some therapeutic cleaning of the motorhome (it was just what I needed!), while Sid and the kids built an awesome fire. We ate hot dogs and stuff for dinner and I chilled in the motorhome (again, just what I needed!) while Sid put the girls to sleep with a campfire story.

When they all came in Sid, Jonny and I watched a scary movie and then went to sleep.

*I have to share this additional coolness. My friend, Old Time Cyndi, has brought it to my attention that my favorite flower that I photographed, the fluorescent orangish, pinkish red one, is in fact an Indian Paintbrush. Well, one of my very favorite children’s books is The Legend of the Indian Paintbrush by Tomie DePaola (in fact, all of his books are wonderful!!!)! Check it out.

Our trip to CO, day 4

July 11th – Saturday

We left RV Ranch in search of Starbucks and The West Colorado Botanical Gardens. We wandered a bit and did not feel especially enamored by the environs there in Grand Junction, so we hit the Starbucks and forewent the Botanical Gardens in favor of perusing the local antique mall. It was a good one. I picked out a really pretty ivory and pink wool blanket, a couple of books, blah, blah, blah. Sid found some cool stuff, Jonny got “those army dudes,” Ave got nice dollhouse furniture that I swear I must have had as a girl, it’s so familiar, and Miss June got a Mickey Mouse purse. So fun!

We headed back out onto the 70 and stopped in Rifle. What a cute town! Old, clean and right on the Colorado River. Sid fell in love with it and spoke dreams of retiring nearby on a farm with horses (I’d like to know how many months of the year it’s covered in snow before I make my decision to join him in those dreams)! So far, Rifle was Sid’s favorite town we’d encountered.

The boys fished right there on the river, beneath the bridge that carries cars from the highway into town. The girlies and I just messed around. Aveline loves to be around the fishing, but would climb the river bank to visit me and June, too. I was very much enjoying watching a storm approach. I attempted the nearly impossible, to catch a shot of lightning. No success, but fun anyhow. I’ll never fully understand the deep affection I have for thunder storms, and I refuse to try to understand it, I just take ‘em when I can get ‘em and love it.

Jonny came so very, very close to catching a fish, he could barely handle the situation! He still talks about that one that got away!

Sid caught a rainbow trout before the wind became turbulent, blasting dirt into our eyes and casting flocks of birds and little leaves into swirling flight, and it started to rain. The lightning was magnificent as it came so close! Again, I tried to get a shot, to no avail. Jonny made sure to urge me to write in this journal about the “crazy storm!” It was so cool and warm!

That night we drove, in search of a campground, beyond all weariness and beyond all queasiness. Uck! We ended up desperately parking right off a winding mountain road in Idaho Springs, right next to a rumbling river . . . little did we know the most glorious environs awaited our exploration when we would wake . . .

A spring in his step

A spring in his step


Serene sky

Serene sky


Riverbank beauty

Riverbank beauty


I loved getting to watch it approach, the furthest mount would disappear in grey, as the closer began to fade

I loved getting to watch it approach, the furthest mount would disappear in grey, as the closer began to fade


Sid and his catch

Sid and his catch


Cute

Cute


I wish I could post this picture big enough to show the swirling birds, can you see the little black specks?

I wish I could post this picture big enough to show the swirling birds, can you see the little black specks?

Our trip to CO, day 3

July 10th – Friday

We forewent another swimming session at Cedar Pocket (since we didn’t want to have to wash our sandy bottoms again, lame? Maybe. Definitely not consistent with the theme of the previous night’s movie selection) and headed out to the Wal-Mart in Cedar City, Utah. When I’m in California, I call it Wal-Mart, in any other state it’s the Wal-Mart. Nice people there in the Wal-Mart in Cedar City, Utah!!! Holy cow, I consider myself to be warm and friendly and I felt at a loss when these people showered their sweetness on me, I just smiled and kept saying “Thank you!” We got a potty seat for June, a BB gun and BBs.

We made a stop at the Starbucks and the gas station and I drove us on through Utah. Knowing the boys wanted to fish, I suggested we stop at a place I kept seeing signs leading to – Fish Lake. We agreed to check it out and so I followed them there signs. On the way, I kept seeing signs to “Salina” and I didn’t want to miss the photo-op, I have a dear friend named Salina as you all must know. I pulled over at the next Salina sign and attempted to get a good shot of me and the sign. It was tricky due to the angle of that sign against the sun, and the fact that I couldn’t adjust my aperture. I was using the camera in my phone, so I could send the photo to Salina immediately with a nice “missing you” message. Just then a big guy, wearing a t-shirt that read “Keep staring, I might do a trick,” named Wade approached me. I admit, he made me nervous at first, especially since we were in the middle of nowhere by then, but I’ll be darned if he didn’t get the very best shot of both me and the sign together! Thanks again Wade!

Sid and Jonny were testing out the new BB gun right about then, so I had time to chat a bit with Wade and bid him goodbye before I got to try my hand at firing the new gun. I’m so excited to brag that I hit the bottle on my first shot! I quit then and there and haven’t fired anything since! Sid and Jonny also hit their targets (though not on their first shots, thank you very much).

On to Fish Lake! We took in the most gorgeous scenery on the way, hooey! The lake was pretty and patch forests and summer cabins freckled its perimeter. As we sat fishing I heard a rustling in the bushes behind us and just then out dallied the cutest little critter! It was orange and black and had the sweetest little ferret face. I’ve been meaning to search google images to identify it (get back to you on that one). Later on, Sid tromped up to the motorhome to grab something and spied a snake slithering through the grass! I looked just in time to catch a glimpse.

After some more fishing time, we drove off, back to the highway. Again our breath was taken away by the scenery. I took several drive-by shots. We also kept coming across free-range cattle, they were so cute, but leary of us. Aveline and I, in trying to follow a couple of cows, ended up in a little ravine with a creek trickling through it, we gathered that the cows must drink from it, but we also felt that fairies must live there.

That night we stayed at RV Ranch in Grand Junction, with full hook-ups!! Luxurious!

Uh-oh, I've been spotted

Uh-oh, I've been spotted


That girl!

That girl!


The clan

The clan


Out and away

Out and away


She found the lip balm in my pocket
I love the look of those trunks, and the zillions of little round leaves atop that flash in a twinkly dance to the music of the breeze

I love the look of those trunks, and the zillions of little round leaves atop that flash in a twinkly dance to the music of the breeze


Siren of Fish Lake

Siren of Fish Lake


God & Canon collaboration

God & Canon collaboration


We wished they were friendlier, so cute!

We wished they were friendlier, so cute!


Aveline wondering if she could be at the entrance of fairyland

Aveline wondering if she could be at the entrance of fairyland


Cutie-pie

Cutie-pie


Another drive-by collaborative effort between God, Canon and my index finger

Another drive-by collaborative effort between God, Canon and my index finger


Help!  My shadowy nemesis is strangling me!

Help! My shadowy nemesis is strangling me!

Our trip to CO, day 2

July 9th – Thursday

We had eggs and spinach for breakfast, in the parking lot of The Tropicana Hotel, and then headed off to Outdoor World for ammo, fishing gear, some shorts for me, etc. The place was like a theme park with it’s aquariums, taxidermy, indoor water features and many large people.

After that we headed over to the outlets in Vegas and we each found some items off of our “needed” list.

Then we got on the road and ended up at Cedar Pocket Campground. What a beautiful place! It was a tiny campground situated below the highway and above a cool river. We spoke to Molly, the gal who operates Cedar Pocket, and she told us the river had a sandy bottom (which we ended up with too, I might add), and that it was clean for swimming. We got into our suits and trekked down the pathway to the river. It was warm . . . we were able to saunter in with absolutely no shock to the system. I was instantly enraptured by the sheer loveliness of the situation but glanced back to the shore in time to see June try to come into the river further than her little body was ready for, I immediately started toward her, but I didn’t get to her before seeing her go face down and get pulled a few inches down river. I pulled her up out of the water and held her till she calmed down. It didn’t take long, she was scared, but she got happy when I told her she must have held her breath when her face went in, what a big girl! I hate those images (a tiny one, face down in the water, being pulled, even if only a few inches) and the way they haunt, but I suppose they keep a sometimes carried-away-in-the-moment mama cautious and alert.

There was a powdery sanded beach on the other side of the river and because the river had eroded it’s way through red rock over many, many moons, the sand was pinkish! I am disappointed that that fact didn’t register so well with Mr. G10, but oh well, I have a lot to learn about him yet, before our relationship will run as smooth as I dream it one day will. If only every new relationship came with a User Guide.

A bit beyond the pink beach, along the river, we found tracks of a very large bird and a smaller critter (Sid’s and my best guess was a raccoon). We floated around a bunch. We all loved it, but the sun was setting. So back to the motorhome (I have to name her, I’m sure I’ll have a good one by the time I’m done posting about our trip!) for some spaghetti and Yes Man starring Jim Carrey and Zooey Deschanel. Indeed we epitomize the term “Fancy Campers,” as our motorhome is outfitted with a Sharp Aquos LCD flat screen TV.

Just after Junie's scare

Just after Junie's scare


Aquatic Jonny and Elevated Aveline

Aquatic Jonny and Elevated Aveline


Loveliness in the loveliness

Loveliness in the loveliness


Sid rules at timer shots

Sid rules at timer shots


Happy hearts and full bellies

Happy hearts and full bellies

“I didn’t even have to use my A.K., I got to say it was a good day.”
-Ice Cube
Author’s Post Scriptum: I do not recommend that you google that song and read the rest of the lyrics.

Our trip to CO, day 1

I kept a journal of what we did each day of our trip, so I shall share that, including pictures when available, with you, here.

July 8th – Wednesday

Following the usual setting-off-in-the-motorhome-Trader Joe’s-spree, and then the drive back up the hill, home to pick up the forgotten nine chicken breasts Sid had grilled for the trip, we drove to Las Vegas, stopping a couple of times for outlet shopping on the way, Sid and I sharing the privilege of driving. We ended up parked in the parking lot of The Tropicana, and there we stayed the night. June and Aveline had no problems falling asleep, but Jonny, Sid and I were HOT! Jonny felt a little homesick, too. I told him the true story from my girlhood of The Haunted Slumber Party. He liked the story, but was still too hot to fall asleep. I gave him scratchies, but still, he was too hot. The three of us decided we needed to take cold showers, right there in our motorhome, to cool off. Initially Jonny didn’t want to, but Sid and I urged him, telling him that that night would soon be a memory and we would have fun looking back and talking about the adventure of getting through the hot night in our motorhome, in Las Vegas! The shower helped a lot . . . for a little while. Soon enough Jonny drifted off, and eventually Sid did too.

Jonny, backward in shotgun!

Jonny, backward in shotgun!


Miss Aveline and the Cootie she created, en route

Miss Aveline and the Cootie she created, en route


Junie with those sunny desert cheeks

Junie with those sunny desert cheeks


Just give me my Peet's and I'm good

Just give me my Peet's and I'm good


Outside the outlet mall in Primm, I couldn't believe the majesty of the sky!  If you have to live in Primm, there's the upside, right there

Outside the outlet mall in Primm, I couldn't believe the majesty of the sky! If you have to live in Primm, there's the upside, right there


I turned off my flash and used a little LED flashlight to illuminate my handsome Love's sweet face as he drove us on

I turned off my flash and used a little LED flashlight to illuminate my handsome Love's sweet face as he drove us on