Chuck Smith, Jr.’s Reflexions
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chuck smith, jr.’s
reflexions
Number 93 October 14, 2008
The Better to See You With
Give people an opportunity and they will surprise you. Sometimes you have to probe their thoughts or
prod them to open up. They need to know it is safe to share and no matter what they say, they will be loved
and accepted. If you succeed in getting beneath the surface, you’ll find a treasure worth uncovering.
A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water,
But a man of understanding draws it out.
(Proverbs 20:5)
“Plan” (Hebrew, etsah) is advice or counsel, but when it is “in the heart” the meaning shifts slightly. For
example, the same word in Psalm 13:2 means something like introspection or self-examination:
How long shall I take counsel in my soul,
Having sorrow in my heart all the day?
The poet’s unhappiness drove him inward, to wrestle with his thoughts and emotions, trying to figure things
out, perhaps trying to understand himself. The proverb above suggests that a wise and caring person can help.
The Beauty of Others
A Christian leader asked me to speak to a group of his friends. “We aren’t interested in having you teach
us anything profound,” he explained, “We want you to tell us about the hard times and your struggles.” Well,
that seemed easy enough. I’ve hardly ever lived two steps away from my struggles.
I stood before sixty strangers and told them how I had suffered with depression through more than thirty
years of ministry. I tried to give them an idea of what that had done to me. I suggested the possibility that
God’s intent was not to beat my heart to a pulp, but to tenderize it for the sake of others.
Afterwards, a woman stood back and off to one side while others spoke with me. When there was no one
else waiting, she stood in front of me, slightly trembling. The tears rolled over the edge of her lower eyelids
and when her lips moved, her voice was a whisper, “Thank you.” She paused, looked down, took a couple of
deep breaths and said, “I have always thought that I wasn’t a very good Christian. I could not do what other
believers told me I should be doing. They told me that no matter my circumstances, I should rejoice in the
Lord. They told me to trust God and be more hopeful. They told me Christians aren’t supposed to be down.”
The story she told me was a familiar one. Then she said, “But tonight I realized I’m okay. I am not a bad
person. God loves me, he is near me. There is nothing wrong with my faith in God, I’m just broken.”
That is what I mean by being surprised by people. Who would have thought that a revelation of God’s
love would lead to an admission of sadness and brokenness, fear and rejection that yielded a moment of such
beauty? Her wet cheeks drew up into a hopeful smile as she thanked me again and then turned and walked
away.
Through His Eyes
During a conversation two weeks ago, I realized that some believers don’t understand what it meant for
Jesus to enter our world and become one of us. The person I spoke with assumed that since Jesus was “God in
the flesh,” he knew everything that was going to happen in his life before it happened. But if that were true,
then Jesus wasn’t really one of us, because part of being human is not knowing what lies ahead.
First century Christians sang a hymn about Jesus’ descent into human likeness that Paul quoted in
Philippians chapter 2. They sang of Jesus existing “in the form of God,” but instead of clinging to equality with
God, he “emptied himself.” Jesus laid aside his divine prerogatives. That is why he got hungry, sleepy, worn
out, and frustrated with the slowness of his disciples and the opposition of his critics. That is also why the
Romans were able to crucify him.
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Although Jesus was the Word that became flesh and lived among us—he always carried within himself
both God’s nature and human nature—, he limited himself in order to fully embrace human experience.
“Therefore, since the children share in flesh and blood, He Himself likewise also partook of the same . . . . He
had to be made like His brethren in all things . . . For since He Himself was tempted in that which He has
suffered, He is able to come to the aid of those who are tempted” (He. 2:14-18).
Jesus Christ, flesh of our flesh. His brain and Central Nervous System was identical to ours. Like us, Jesus
“learned obedience from the things which He suffered” (He. 5:8). He became a human to see the world
through our eyes. That is “part one” of a two-part equation. He also came to give us the gift of seeing
through his eyes.
If you find yourself in a heated argument, a frustrating conversation, or a boring encounter with another
person, something phenomenal will happen if you allow God to let you see that person through his eyes. You
do not see an annoying, opinionated, simple-minded bore. Rather, you find before you a child trying to find
justice on a playground stalked by a relentless bully. You see a lost son who has ventured into the far country,
but has not yet turned toward home because he still has a few coins in his pocket. You see a frightened young
woman who worries that her life will be over before she experiences that one true romance. You will also
find a rock of stability, a son of thunder, an exquisite diamond, a poem or song, all built around God’s image.
I am sure that you can easily imagine looking at other people through the eyes of Jesus, and seeing them in
a new way—a work of art, beautiful in their imperfection. But I’ll bet that you find it much more difficult to
see yourself through the eyes of Jesus. Can you look in the mirror and through his eyes see the majesty of the
image of God inside yourself? Can you see a person who is only “a little lower than God,” beautiful, wise,
and glorious? (Ps. 8:5). Can you see the child that suffers, but is afraid to ask for healing? Can you see the saint
devoted to God’s truth? Can you see the object of God’s love and desire?
Outsiders
One of the curiosities of Jesus’ ministry occurs when strangers instantly get what he is about, while
religious scholars are in the dark and his own disciples miss the point. Go through Matthew’s gospel sometime
and notice how often Jesus described his disciples as men “of little faith.” You may be surprised. But then a
Gentile woman comes to him for help. At first, he doesn’t even want to bother with her—at least that’s how
he acts. But finally she gets to him and he says, “O woman, your faith is great” (Mt. 15:28). But in the next
chapter, the disciples are once again “men of little faith” (Mt. 16:8). They scratch their heads, not getting Jesus
while the foreigner goes home with her prayer answered.
Another example: A Roman officer whose slave was dying. Jesus agreed to come to the officer’s home and
heal the slave. But the officer declined Jesus’ offer, saying that he wasn’t worthy to have Jesus enter his house.
Instead, he informed Jesus that he understood authority and the chain of command. All he had to do was
bark an order and immediately his word would be obeyed. So if Jesus would “just say the word,” his servant
would be healed (Mt. 8:5-9).
Matthew says that “when Jesus heard this, He marveled . . .” How did Matthew know Jesus’ interior
reaction? Wouldn’t the Lord’s admiration for the officer be personal and private? I think that the people
standing nearby must have read Jesus’ response in his facial expression and body language.
Jesus told those following him, “Truly I say to you, I have not found such great faith with anyone in
Israel.” Were the disciples wounded by this remark? Or did they see it as a challenge? Regardless, within just a
few verses, the disciples have reverted to their “little faith” (Mt. 8: 10 & 26).
Jesus and You
Can you relax your body for a moment, take a deep breath, and allow your spirit to become sensitive to
the nearness of Jesus? Inhale: “Here.” Exhale: “Now.”
He looks at you, peering deep inside, searching, observing, caring. He finds your spirit, perhaps coming
forth to greet him or maybe crouched in a corner hiding. He breathes his own Spirit into your spirit and tells
you to receive him (Jn. 20:22).
What is the expression on his face? What is his body language? What do they tell you?
That you are loved, you are safe, you are the image of his Father in heaven, and he finds you beautiful.
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